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In the bedroom: Lights on or off?

and I am not talking about reading...

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  1. lights on i like to see what im eating
  2. both
  3. off....it's better and less embarrassing
  4. If a girl won't do it with the lights on, I am out of there.
  5. candlelight is best :)
  6. Low lighting is best... Not bright...Not dark....
  7. if you can't have sex with the lights on you shouldnt' be having sex with that person.
  8. Off with candles!
  9. Lights off in the winter, on in the summer!
  10. On, but dimly. I like to see the action, but not be blinded...I agree with the other poster who said if you cannot be nude in front of the other person, you should not be having s e x with them.
  11. off
  12. It depends on the mood and tone - if it's supposed to be a romantic time - anniversary or such - then not absolutely dark, but dim - with a few candles burning. But if you are filming your own "Danielle Does Donald" then lights it is. From experience, men generally like some light, they are visual creatures and want to see what they are conquering (even if they've had it before). I'm really not a fan of total darkness myself, I like connecting with the person - in fact, the only time my fiance and I really are in complete darkness is when we try to sneak some at 5:30 in the morning before we have to get the kids up at 6 for school.
  13. Well i think it better when the lights r off but its cool to have black lights on it brings out the color in a guys eyes
  14. lights off, but I prefer to bring a headlamp. I mean... what miner doesn't wear a headlamp when he goes deep into a mine shaft to drill? I think its unfair that I get laughed at everytime I bust mine out! :P
  15. if i were you i would like the light a little dim not too bright and not too dark i want to see what's going on i want to see how he looks you and if he wants the lights off then there must be something that he is hiding from me. Lights on please.
  16. Lights on for some personal investigations Lights off for the mystery of each other.
  17. if you are w. someone cause you care about them then you shouldn't feel unconfortable infront of them or self concience so...lights on. plus you can have more fuun.