my mom is really not fair?

k so my bro and me are in the garage playing in one of dads cabinets and our mom comes out rely pissed off and stuff and is like get out of there go to your rooms. so we go to r rooms and stuff i didnt close my door or nothing and mom like goes in my brothers room and is saying a bnch of stuff how there is dangerus chemicals and stuff and my brother starts crying so i go and look moms pulling his pants off and so i go back in my room and here her spanking him and hes crying so bad. hes 9 so im like k whatever. like a min later she comes in my room and starts telling me the same stuff and im like i know and sory. she then like sits down on my bed grbas me im like what the hell r u doing and then she pulling my shorts down and she gets me on her lap and pins me i cant do anything and she pulls my underwear down and spanks me, im screaming at her and she ignore me and spanks me and i start crying i didnt mean to but it hurt like hell. im going to be an adult soon and way to old for this crap how can i make her stop. i'm 13 years old

Public Comments

  1. what the hell? ur moms crazy!
  2. Don't play with things you know you shouldn't.
  3. thats, abuse?tell someone. makeherstop! you aretoo old for thatkind ofstuff!itsdifferentifyou arelike 3,but you arent! so tell someone!
  4. talk with her of how you think thats unfair and that your almost an adult and she doesn't need to be treating you like a 5 year old. she can punish you (grounding, taking things away, yelling...ect. ) but i mean spanking? and the way you sound.. you sound at least like.. 14 or older.. so just talk to her and talk to your dad to and see if they will try to work somthing out.
  5. How old are you??You say you are going to be an adult soon but you were playing in cabinets?Your mother told you there were dangerous chemicals etc in the garage and you - the soon to be adult - thought it was okay to play around those things with a 9 year old? Stop acting like a small child and make better decisions then your mother may stop treating you like a little kid.
  6. Get your mother some mental help, she is sick
  7. You're right, you are too old for spankings. You're also too old to be playing in the garage with chemicals, but that didn't stop you from doing it. You aren't as mature as you thought you were, huh?
  8. You probably scared your mom to death by playing with dangerous chemicals! She did what she did to you and your brother because she was so worried about the two of you that it made her very angry. I don't believe in spanking, especially with children your age, but at the same time I can tell you that moms often do things they are sorry for later when they are worrying about their kids. Tell her that you're really, really sorry you went into the chemicals, and that you won't do it again. And tell her that you didn't mean to worry her. I can almost promise you that she'll apologize for hitting you.
  9. Um seriously, what 13 year old plays with chemicals, AND also gets a younger sibling involved? That doesn't sound like what a teenager should be doing. A bare butt spanking at 13 for THAT perhaps is a tad drastic, but at the same time, you did do something DANGEROUS and IMMATURE for your age. Your mom was just scared and was really mad because you should know better at your age and you ENCOURAGED your brother to participate in something DANGEROUS. So think about it it got her point across didn't it? Would a talking to or a grounding really made such an impression? Doubt it. Next time think about what your doing and think about if its not appropriate FOR YOU then DEFINITELY NOT appropriate for your brother. Like i said perhaps a spanking wasn't the best action according to your age but at the same time I think it probably did the best job of teaching you a LONG LASTING lesson more so then anything else. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and apologize to your brother
  10. Way to go MOM!!!